Brazil has been all about new beginnings. Not just for me on my travels, but for my friend Alice and her husband Fabiano’s new born son, Louie.
I decided to start my trip in Sao Paolo to visit this new family and learn a bit more about what it is like to live in one of the world’s ‘megacities’. Sao Paolo is home to almost 18 million people and traffic jams that put even London rush hour in perspective so I had a sense there must be plenty of stuff going on.
I stayed in Pinheiros (meaning pine trees in Portuguese, even though I didn’t spot many) where Alice and Fab bought a beautifully spacious flat a year ago. The area reminded me of a mix between a dilapidated New York and the area I grew up in in Rome. High rise buildings and a mixture of old and new skyscrapers fill the skyline. The city has been building upwards to make space for the growing number of inhabitants. Underneath, a bustle of people chatting, smoking and hanging outside of trattoria style eateries drinking local beers or coffees. A very European style disregard for zebra crossings and traffic lights and a need for pedestrian bravery to get across the roads. The weather hot and muggy, scorching in the morning and almost on cue, tropical showers in the afternoon.
The people are friendly, if a little nosey. The women have a sense of pride in style and glamour also carry an air of fussiness and over protectiveness. We experienced a few pram peekers who weren’t scared to air their views.
Little Louie was born into the city only seven weeks ago. Alice was determined to have a completely natural birth, despite going against the grain in Brazil. A shocking figure of over 80% of women give birth by cesarean section, mostly out of choice in Sao Paolo, either for pride in appearance reasons or for easy and convenience. This is not helped by the doctors, who encourage c-sections, as it makes their lives easier, too. Despite objections and concern from family and friends who considered natural births dangerous, Alice located one of the only birthing centres in one of the poorer parts of the city and did it completely naturally and drug free. (Brave woman!) Her birthing partner took photos and videos of the experience which she shared with me whilst staying with her. She admitted that it was extremely painful but the whole experience looked so beautifully admirable and calm and despite being a far cry from local tradition, I thought it was a perfect way for Louie to begin his life in a busy megacity.


My beginning was all about a fresh start and experiencing new things around the world. After an emotional and stressful year, with many twists and turns, Sao Paolo was the start of preparing for the year ahead of traveling alone. Before leaving snowy London, I reflected on the times I have done this in the past and all the rewarding, random and unforgettable experiences I had from my first ever solo trip in Berkeley, California, to gallivanting around Australia, Tanzania and Bolivia. At dinner on my last night in London, my parents reminded me about the time I called them from California after two days saying I was homesick. (I soon got over it and didn’t want to leave.) I had to remind them that I was 17 at the time and now, a year off thirty, I would probably be OK!
Just to make sure, Alice, a qualified acupuncturist and masseuse, worked her magic on me. I had my first ever session of acupuncture followed by a head massage. I was prescribed a personal herbal remedy of essential oils. Mine were olive, walnut and gentian for energy, confidence and ability to deal with change. Perfect concoction to send me on my way. Vigilant Alice also made one for herself and also for her cat Mila, who is certainly treated as one of the family.


And so my short but very sweet chapter to Brazil drew to a close. If not on this trip, I will return one day soon to explore the wonders the rest of the country has to offer but for now, the next stop is Guatemala where a family and some intensive Spanish lessons await.
So I put on my travelling hat, a creation of the wonderful Laura Peacock that I'm told makes me look like Patsy from Ab Fab (it has a sock puppet attached to it)! and head on my merry little way.
